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A Chinese Tea Ceremony at The Melbourne Hotel, Perth

Last updated: 3 June 2026

Planning a Chinese tea ceremony at The Melbourne Hotel in Perth gives you one of the most meaningful parts of a wedding day in a setting that genuinely photographs beautifully. I am Norman Yap. Norman Yap Photography is my personal wedding photography label, based in Perth, Western Australia, working with couples across full-day, upper-tier and luxury weddings. I am from a Chinese background and held my own tea ceremony, so I know the moments that matter and the cultural sensitivity it deserves.

This guide covers where to hold the ceremony at The Melbourne Hotel, what the light is like in each space, how the ceremony runs, and the timing and photo spots to plan for.

A Chinese tea ceremony at The Melbourne Hotel is a formal wedding ritual where the couple serve tea to their elders, eldest to youngest, to show respect and receive their blessing. At this Perth venue it is usually held in a bridal suite, the Grand Orient restaurant, or the rooftop bar.


Key takeaways

  • The Melbourne Hotel offers three settings for a tea ceremony: a large bridal suite, the Grand Orient restaurant, and the rooftop bar.
  • The Grand Orient is the standout for photography, with heritage mural wallpaper, beautiful windows and natural light.
  • If you hold the ceremony in a suite, the light is dimmer, so tell your photographer in advance to plan lighting.
  • Allow about 30 minutes for each side of the family, plus time for couple portraits in your traditional outfits.
  • The ceremony moves from parents to aunties and uncles, then eldest to youngest, with tea, blessings and red packets.
  • The real images are the faces of the elders being served, their reactions, and the gifts and ang baos.
  • There are lovely portrait spots throughout, from the Grand Orient and the staircase to the facade, balcony and QV1 across the road.

Where to hold a Chinese tea ceremony at The Melbourne Hotel

The Melbourne Hotel gives you three options, and the one you choose shapes the look of your photos. Most couples host the tea ceremony in one of the larger bridal suites. You can also pre-book the Grand Orient restaurant, which caters for tea ceremonies, or head up to the rooftop bar for something different. For the full meaning and order of the ritual, see our guide to the Chinese wedding tea ceremony.

The Grand Orient

If photography matters to you, the Grand Orient is the standout. It has a real heritage feel, with beautiful mural wallpaper as a backdrop, gorgeous windows and striking architecture. The light there is lovely for a tea ceremony, which means relaxed, natural images without heavy lighting.

The bridal suite

The suites are the most common choice and keep everything in one place on the morning. They are a little darker, so we supplement with artificial light. If you decide on a suite, let your photographer know in advance so the lighting is planned and the ceremony still looks its best.

The rooftop bar

For couples who want a different backdrop, the rooftop bar is worth considering as a third option.

How the tea ceremony runs and how long to allow

The ceremony follows a clear order of respect. The couple serve tea to their parents first, then to aunties and uncles, moving from the eldest to the youngest. Allow about 30 minutes for each side of the family, and leave a little extra for couple portraits while you are in your traditional outfits.

The moments that matter

The heart of a tea ceremony is the people being served. This is the couple's formal acceptance into the family, the elders offering their blessing, and the giving of gifts and ang baos, the red packets. We focus on the elders receiving the tea and their reactions, alongside the couple together, because those faces are the story of the day.

Portrait spots at and around The Melbourne Hotel

There is no shortage of beautiful backdrops here. The Grand Orient and its mural wallpaper near the windows are a highlight, along with the stone architecture, the grand staircase, the balcony and the facade of the building itself. Just across the road, QV1 offers a striking modern contrast if you would like a few frames further afield.

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Frequently asked questions


Where can you hold a Chinese tea ceremony at The Melbourne Hotel?

There are three options: a large bridal suite (the most common), the Grand Orient restaurant (pre-book), or the rooftop bar. The Grand Orient is the most photogenic.

Which space photographs best?

The Grand Orient, for its heritage mural wallpaper, windows and natural light. The suites are dimmer and need added lighting.

How long does a Chinese tea ceremony take?

Allow about 30 minutes for each side of the family, plus a little extra for couple portraits in your traditional outfits.

What is the order of the tea ceremony?

The couple serve tea to their parents first, then aunties and uncles, then eldest to youngest, receiving blessings and red packets in return.

What are the key moments to capture?

The elders being served and their reactions, the giving of gifts and ang baos, and the couple together.

Do I need to tell my photographer where the ceremony will be?

Yes. If it is in a suite the light is dimmer and needs planned lighting, so let your photographer know in advance.

A tea ceremony in good hands

A Chinese tea ceremony at The Melbourne Hotel is a moving, meaningful part of the day, and it deserves a photographer who understands it. Our studio is very experienced with Chinese tea ceremonies, and as someone from a Chinese background who has held my own, I know the order, the etiquette and the moments that carry the most meaning, along with the cultural sensitivity the day calls for.

If you are planning a tea ceremony at The Melbourne Hotel, I would love to hear from you. You can see more of our Perth wedding photography, or reach out and we can plan your day together.


About Norman Yap
Norman Yap is the founder and principal photographer of Norman Yap Photography, his personal wedding photography label based in Perth, Western Australia. With hundreds of weddings photographed across Western Australia and his own experience planning a wedding as a groom, Norman brings both technical skill and genuine cultural understanding to every wedding day.

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